Tuesday, May 1, 2012

what octogenarians & nonagenarians know about anti-aging...




Sometimes, it isn’t the food at all…


As a certified health coach for the past 7 years, I’ve been sharing my information about how the food we eat literally becomes the body. I believe this to be true and I feel that we, by our choices, create pretty much all the good, and all the bad that the body experiences. It was the sadness of watching family members struggle with obesity, diabetes, depression and high blood pressure that led me on this path.

One day, a few years back, I was watching an interview with anti-inflammatory specialist, Dr. Nicholas Perricone, in which he explained that aging and disease are 40% genetic and 60% lifestyle. This informed everything I did, knowing that I was more in control than I had originally thought.

 Every bite was bringing me closer to optimum health or nearer to the grave.

This Monday, however, I was reminded of something that supports the opposite view and it made me chuckle.

Lets preface this by saying that I have a deep affinity for the elderly.  Growing up, I spent a great deal of time with my Nana and her brother and sister.  My Nana lived to 85, her brother to 87 and my Aunt Bea to a ripe 95.  They were all healthy and vibrant with boundless energy, especially Aunt Bea. I recall their diet was pretty simple.  Aunt Bea and Uncle Charlie would file into the kitchen for a breakfast of fried Hebrew national bologna and eggs. Toward the end of their lives there wasn’t much disease.  Uncle Charlie actually died in his sleep, peacefully. Yes, they all grew up on a farm and spent the majority of their lives eating real food/ whole food. They were lucky, since chemicals didn’t make it into the food supply until the late 1960’s. They were all breast-fed because that is just what they did back then. So you could say that they were “set up” for a healthy life. Still, I remember us all gathering in the kitchen for ice cream sundaes on a regular basis.  The health coach in me balks at this steady use of nitrates and hard sugar, but it worked for them.

Their lives were rich with friends, culture and laughter.

This Monday I was in Fairway shopping for a client when a woman in her 90’s shuffled by muttering to herself, loud enough for me to hear… “I could walk around here all day and not find a damn thing!” She was adorable with her kerchief on her head, slightly hunched over her wagon.
“What do you need?” I asked. She replied very loudly articulating every moment of each word
“McCormick Baco-Bits!” we found them in aisle 2 all the way on the top shelf. As I reached for them she barked,
“Grab me two of them!”
“What do you do with them?” I questioned.  She shook her head with a sigh as she tilted her chin up to me
“I nibble on them all day long… I know its no good for me but I can’t help it” We both laughed.


While you won’t find me exploring the pleasures of McCormick Baco-Bit nibbling, I have been known to indulge in a pig-in-a-blanket every now and again at a party and that’s OK. 

Monday, April 9, 2012

back to REALITY!!!


well folks,

after 7 weeks in New Orleans filming VH1's Tough Love AND 3 weeks up at the prestigious Culinary Institute of America, I am finally home.

phew!

you will be able to watch my transformative stint as reality show star on Tough Love starting April 15th Sunday night on VH1 at 9pm. Also, you can find out the inside scoop and some show gossip/ cast photos by checking out my VH1's Tough Love -Donna Sonkin fan page on Facebook.

you can see all of my new techniques and fun recipes by checking out my Donna Sonkin Holistic Health Coach and Chef on my Facebook page or visit my website DonnaSonkin.com

as for my time in both places...

keeping to my simple daily yoga practice and meditation kinda saved me. Nothing too intense just about 5-30 minutes of yoga and a simple meditation that at times was only for 5 minutes- sometimes 20 minutes. It's stressful having cameras in your face 24 hours a day. Just as stressful living in close quarters with new people. I made some wonderful friends (please follow me on Twitter @donnasonkin for cast mate tweets) I LOVED these gals.

I also followed a pretty strict food plan of what I wouldn't eat - except of course on dates... you have to bend a little:)... there were times where I had literally nothing else to eat but pizza because that was the ONLY thing available. In those cases I ate the pizza.

Up at school it was even more of a challenge because I HAD to taste EVERYTHING ! I mean, I was at one of the top culinary schools in the world. I needed and wanted to learn through my taste buds and I did. Every cream sauce, all types of braised meats, anything fried, also there were many healthy items so I tried my best to fill my plate up with vegetables and just have bites of everything else. It was a wonderful experience.

here was my basic protocol for avoiding packing on the pounds when schedule and stress collide to create what could be the perfect storm of diet disasters:

I got these basic ideas from an amazing book that I read by Canadian N.D. Dr. John Matsen - the book is called "Eating Alive Prevention Thru Good Digestion" he talks about avoiding non-food items
  • coffee
  • tea
  • white sugar
  • chocolate
  • alcohol
  • artificial sweeteners
  • preservatives
  • iodized salt (good quality table salt OK)
  • tobacco
  • gluten and processed grain products (quinoa, brown rice OK)
these items tax adrenals and stress the body out. if you are going through stress you want to make it easy for the body!

I made sure that I slept as best I could, donning a sleep mask, using ear plugs and anointing myself with lavender oil. occasionally I would take Bach's sleep remedy spray or melatonan.

of course the easiest thing to do is drink a glass of water and take a deep breath.
having certain foods on hand will set you up for success as well:
  • sardines
  • kale
  • some fruits
  • sweet potatoes
  • good quality animal protein
  • naturally raised eggs
  • all vegetables
  • good quality spring water - in glass bottles when available (my favorite is Mountain Valley Spring water)
now that you have the basics... there is no excuse for letting stress get the better of you. If I could get through this mania anyone can:)

much love,
xoxo-Donna


Tuesday, May 17, 2011

Donna Sonkin HHC,AADP’s Top 5 weight loss tips

1. DON’T DIET!

Seriously, when you “go ON a diet” you are bound to “go OFF a diet” right???

2. SPOIL YOUR APPETITE!

When you wait too long between meals and are faced with too many options and choices you kind of go nuts and eat everything in site. When you show up to a party or dinner hungry but not ravenous you are less likely to stuff yourself, my recommendation is to have a small amount of fat/ protein / vegetables, so, fry an egg or have some steamed broccoli with pastured butter. You will enjoy yourself a lot more and be more in the moment with the other attendees instead of wondering what you are going to eat!

3. LISTEN TO YOUR BODY NOT MAIN STREAM MEDIA!

This is good advice, I cannot tell you how many times I have read some women’s magazine with some “bikini ready- in – 4 weeks” diet plan only to think “ how can they tell YOU what YOU need in your body!?!?!” makes no sense, some people need more food to lose weight, some people are really satiated by grains, some people get bloated when they eat grains, some folks can eat dairy, some become sluggish on dairy, some people feel really great and energized when they eat meat, some people become constipated. There are those who can eat tropical fruit and some who break out when they do. See what I mean? Listen to your body, see how you feel after you eat something, that will guide you… not some “diet” in the back of some magazine!

4. SLEEP!

When you sleep your body reduces its production of the stress hormone cortizol for more wonders of sleep please read my article in Green Beauty Team this month.

http://greenbeautyteam.com/self-care/137-why-beauty-sleep-is-the-fountain-of-youth.html

5. LOVE YOURSELF NOW!

Loving yourself and finding what is good and beautiful about YOU as you are NOW will send a message to the universe that you are sitting in love and gratitude and are ready for beauty (see post below)

Tuesday, April 19, 2011

Beauty as Nature Intended By Donna Sonkin HHC,AADP.

What if I told you that you were amazing RIGHT now? Yes, we could all use some tweaking to be the BEST version of ourselves but, what if you already had all of that in you. What if you could just relax knowing that, like Dorothy’s ruby slippers you had the ability all the while. Through all of life’s ups and downs, through all of the anxiety and low self esteem days? Would you believe me?

I am here to tell you that you are a glorious creature that you have been given the perfect body, skin, voice, hair, talents that you need for this lifetime. The lessons that you must learn will turn about because of who you are and the vessel in which you travel. Sure Marilyn Monroe got a nose job – but I’ve seen the photos and I thought that she was gorgeous with her original nose.

I recently NetFlixed the movie “The Curious Case of Benjamin Button.” I was blown away by all of the CGI (Computer-generated imagery) during the course of the movie Brad Pitt and Cate Blanchet’s characters go from 19 years old to 95 years old –they were pulled to look younger and had more than 5 hours of makeup a day to look older. Julia Ormond played Cate’s daughter and is 43 years old. The first close up that I saw of her bowled me over- “she is a goddess” I thought “ a radiant vision” I think that it was the first time in about ten years that I have seen a woman in the movies actually look her age. Every line , every wrinkle, the furrow of her brow. It made me feel good about aging gracefully without botox or fillers or peels. Without lying to my friends about some secret vacation when I turn 55 to go get pulled and nipped. To see an expressive face , a face with feeling and emotion. WOW! So many of us fall into the trap of being lead by the media – I actually dated a guy who had no clue that they airbrushed photos of women in the magazines and billboards-- he was really missing out on BEAUTY as nature intended it! I remember one of my students talking about her grandmother and how she loved her arm fat – how it was one of the few places that she felt safe, how she would not trade time in her grandmother’s embrace, snuggled into her bosom nearly suffocated by arm fat. Isn’t that worth something?

I read a great interview with Selma Hyack where she calls her stretch marks her “tiger stripes” just thinking of Selma Hyack with stretch marks makes me feel all warm and fuzzy.

These imperfections will benefit someone along the way – it is up to us to figure out who and allow those people who REALLY appreciate us and our bodies to get to love us and be with us. In the movie Pitt’s character goes on and on about loving Blanchet’s smile lines, that alone is reason to forgo botox.

I am in no way saying that you should have globs of arm fat and weathered skin – I am saying that you can work with what you have and see the value in it . To love it as it is and then work at making it the BEST ever.

Here are some tips on working with what you’ve got:

Donna’s top 5 tips to loving where your at:

  1. Figure out what it is that you need to work on, really. Find an honest friend who will lovingly and gently bring things to your attention- do you eat late night? Do you make dumb choices when it comes to relationships? Ask a friend and then sit back and LISTEN without judgment or fear.

  1. DO something about it! Now that you have a basic idea of what needs work go out and DO! Is your apartment a mess? Call in a professional organizer. Do you feel stuck , get a life coach. Need some fresh energy in your life? Volenteer.

  1. Make fitness a regular part of your life. Be consistent, finally! Enlist a professional to kick your butt and then make plans to keep doing it. Make work outs a fixture by literally scheduling them into your blackberry or planner. Nothing will make you feel better about who you are than a work out- you release hundreds of wonderful phyto- chemicals and endorphins.

  1. Get OUT of your head! Are you trapped by your thoughts? Find your personal Zen place with classic meditation or one of the active forms of meditation. I call these “active” because they link the body/ mind and breath – any martial arts, yoga, swimming and running even a long walk in nature can bring you glorious inner peace. Even taking 5 minutes a day to quiet the mind and breathe can change your entire day and how you feel about who you are.

  1. Get your food issues under wraps once and for all! Are you emotional eating? Late night eating? Have you no clue of what to buy, cook or what to eat? Do you look to magazine articles for your nutrition advice? Time to get real and figure that all out. First I recommend eating REAL food – this is food that is what it says it is, an egg is an egg, chicken is chicken, nuts are nuts, grapes are grapes etc. If you eat only this type of food you will avoid all processed food naturally. Also, listening to your body can be so powerful. So ask yourself before you dive into the buffet table at your cousins wedding “what do I really want?” “how hungry am I ?” if you eat when you know you aren’t hungry ask “what is on my mind ?” “what am I upset about –really”

I know that with these 5 tools you are well on your way to the kind of self acceptance that makes you appear to be more beautiful in all you do.

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

Monday, December 6, 2010

Healthy Happy Holiday

  1. 1. Get to bed a t a reasonable hour when possible- I know it can be a challenge when there are parties and friends in from out of town, but the closer you are to being in harmony with nature… the healthier you will be. Sleep will also keep your immune system nice and strong. Trouble falling asleep try my favorite - Young Living Lavender oil (click here & place order, sign in as "customer" - you will need to give shipping address before you order)

  2. 2. Eat before you go- not a huge meal but just enough to “take the edge off” so when you get to the party you are not grabbing for whatever is placed before you. Think protein / fat/ vegetables here. So some chicken soup with kale (recipe below) will do the trick.

  3. 3. Drink one glass of water for each cocktail- it’s a fact that libations dehydrate you, so be smart about your alcohol intake. Avoid sugary drinks – best to opt for wine, beer or clear spirits with seltzer water and lime. I like Crop organic cucumber vodka it is crisp and refreshing best of all no chemicals!


  1. 4. Look for non-food forms of nourishment – it’s the time of year to really look after yourself add in a new fun work out – I like what the girls at Physique 57 are doing they keep it fun. You could add on an extra 5-minute massage to your mani-pedi. Or have a Skype visit with a loved one who is far away.
  2. 5. Take my new holiday class!!!

  3. Click here for class invite...

This holiday season I have partnered up with a brilliant clairvoyant teacher – Tori Quisling … she had brought many clients much peace and has helped me to see things in a different light. Together we will help you not only get through the holidays but end up slimmer, healthier and happier come February!


Wednesday,
December 15 · 6:30pm - 8:30pm

LocationUpper East Side studio 70's- (exact address given at registration)

Created By

More InfoStay Healthy & Happy Through the Holidays
With Clairvoyant Practitioner Tori Quisling
& Holistic Health Coach/ Chef Donna Sonkin

You will learn:
• How to stay relaxed & find joy in any situation
• How to create harmony during family time
• How to stay slim during holiday time
• How to boost your immune system & keep healthy
• How to stay energized through holiday madness

In this groundbreaking 2 hour- interactive workshop you will learn this & more!


Join us:
DATE: Wednesday, December 15
TIME: 6:30pm- 8:30pm
PLACE: Upper East Side studio (70’) address will be given at point of registration
FEE: $35 in advance (credit card) call Tori at 516-423-1794

SPACE IS LIMITED pre-registration and payment required.

To learn more about Tori go to
WWW.YourPsychicSelf.Net
To learn more about Donna go to
WWW.GetThinForTheCamera.com


before you party soup

2 cups organic chicken stock

1/2 bunch organic kale chopped fine

1 link Apple-gate farms or Belinski's organic free-range chicken or turkey sausage cut into discs

1 teaspoon grass-fed butter


instructions-
bring all ingredients up to a boil then down to a simmer for about 5 minutes.
enjoy!



Sunday, June 13, 2010

sweet class




Sweet Class!
these are pictures from my favorite workshop- the sugar workshop
June 9,2010.

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